100 Steps to Be Better at Se

100 Steps to Be Better at Se

Sharpening Physical Awareness

  1. Notice textures around you (wood, glass, fabric).
  2. Pay attention to sounds in the background.
  3. Identify smells in your environment.
  4. Taste food slowly and name subtle flavors.
  5. Track how your body feels when sitting, standing, and walking.
  6. Observe the temperature on your skin.
  7. Practice quick body scans (from head to toe).
  8. Take deep breaths and notice the sensation of air moving.
  9. Feel the weight distribution in your feet.
  10. Use grounding exercises when lost in thought.

Training the Senses

  1. Try mindful eating — one bite at a time.
  2. Practice blindfolded object identification by touch.
  3. Listen to music and pick out individual instruments.
  4. Try “smell walks” — notice scents outdoors.
  5. Focus on color shades in everyday objects.
  6. Identify small details in strangers’ clothing.
  7. Observe how light shifts in a room.
  8. Track changes in the weather through sensation.
  9. Notice the rhythm in everyday noises.
  10. Watch moving water or fire to attune to flow.

Movement & Embodiment

  1. Stretch daily and feel each muscle release.
  2. Practice yoga or tai chi for body control.
  3. Try dance — improvise to music.
  4. Learn basic martial arts stances.
  5. Jump rope or do agility drills.
  6. Roller skate, skateboard, or climb.
  7. Take long walks, paying attention to your surroundings.
  8. Train balance (stand on one leg, slackline).
  9. Learn to fall safely (martial arts rolls).
  10. Move in sync with others (group sports, dance).

Quick Reaction Training

  1. Play reaction-based games (ping pong, video games, dodgeball).
  2. Practice catching objects mid-air.
  3. Train reflexes with apps or light drills.
  4. Learn to juggle.
  5. Practice “start-stop” exercises in sports.
  6. Anticipate when traffic lights change.
  7. Try improv theatre (respond instantly).
  8. Do sprints and explosive exercises.
  9. Play fast-response card games.
  10. Train hand–eye coordination daily.

Presence & Immersion

  1. When walking, name 5 things you see.
  2. Describe an environment in detail without judgment.
  3. Use “5-4-3-2-1 grounding”: 5 things see, 4 touch, 3 hear, 2 smell, 1 taste.
  4. Drop back into your body when overthinking.
  5. Spend time in nature without distractions.
  6. Focus fully on one activity at a time.
  7. Practice active listening (tone, pauses, body language).
  8. Notice the energy of a crowded space.
  9. Sit in silence outdoors and take in every detail.
  10. Train yourself to stay in “now” rather than the future.

Aesthetic & Design Sensitivity

  1. Experiment with clothing textures and fits.
  2. Notice color combinations in nature.
  3. Photograph interesting patterns and shapes.
  4. Rearrange your room for the harmony of objects.
  5. Try cooking with a focus on plating.
  6. Appreciate architecture with your body in the space.
  7. Sketch what you see in front of you.
  8. Play with shadows and light in photos.
  9. Explore tactile art like clay or woodwork.
  10. Collect small objects that feel satisfying to hold.

Risk & Adventure

  1. Try a new sport.
  2. Travel somewhere unfamiliar and notice details.
  3. Go rock climbing or bouldering.
  4. Do a spontaneous day trip.
  5. Practice cold exposure (cold shower, ice bath).
  6. Ride a bike fast downhill.
  7. Learn to drive a manual or try karting.
  8. Try surfing or snowboarding.
  9. Do something that scares you slightly.
  10. Practice safe but bold challenges weekly.

Social Presence

  1. Maintain eye contact in conversation.
  2. Mirror body language subtly.
  3. Notice people’s microexpressions.
  4. Observe tone shifts in voices.
  5. Track group energy — is it rising or falling?
  6. Respond quickly in playful banter.
  7. Practice spontaneity — say yes to small invites.
  8. Read the “vibe” of a room before speaking.
  9. Use touch appropriately to ground presence.
  10. Practice greeting people with full attention.

Grounding & Balance

  1. When stressed, come back to the present moment.
  2. Use exercise to burn off excess energy.
  3. Avoid dissociating into imagination too often.
  4. Reconnect with nature daily.
  5. Balance sensation-seeking with rest.
  6. Don’t overindulge in stimulants.
  7. Learn when enough sensory input is enough.
  8. Practice “one sense at a time” focus.
  9. Keep your living space physically clean.
  10. Use routines that involve your body (cooking, cleaning).

Lifestyle & Growth

  1. Treat your body as an instrument of awareness.
  2. Curate environments that inspire sensation.
  3. Spend less time on abstract distractions.
  4. Replace doomscrolling with real-world activities.
  5. Anchor insights in real action (test Ni ideas in Se).
  6. Take physical risks to grow courage.
  7. Learn to savor — don’t just consume.
  8. Practice gratitude for physical experience.
  9. Remember: Se is about truth in what is, not what might be.
  10. Live fully in each moment as if it’s the only one.

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